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Post #1 by xDEADCENTREx » Mon Sep 09, 2019 7:11 pm

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Il Capo
SLIFERTHEMAXIBOSS
xDEADCENTREx

Add toxic people as you find them, and make the community aware. I will be keeping the Opening post updated with new names.
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Post #2 by parhelia_0000 » Mon Sep 09, 2019 8:56 pm

Il Capo and SLIFERTHEMAXIBOSS. These guys use a broken custom archetype known as Sgrav and then call us noobs for "using an unbalanced deck pretending to be balanced." https://www.duelingbook.com/replay?id=37528-12365026

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Post #3 by Dal920 » Mon Sep 09, 2019 9:40 pm

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Post #4 by Alisae » Mon Sep 09, 2019 10:13 pm

xDEADCENTREx wrote:CrystalMusic
Alisae

Add toxic people as you find them, and make the community aware. I will be keeping the Opening post updated with new names.
imagine making a thread known as "Toxic User List" and then not putting yourself on it

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Post #5 by RandomPG » Mon Sep 09, 2019 11:32 pm

This looks like a topic CrystalMusic would make.

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Post #6 by xDEADCENTREx » Tue Sep 10, 2019 2:33 pm

Alisae wrote:
xDEADCENTREx wrote:CrystalMusic
Alisae

Add toxic people as you find them, and make the community aware. I will be keeping the Opening post updated with new names.
imagine making a thread known as "Toxic User List" and then not putting yourself on it


Because I am no longer Toxic. Have you even read my contributions, or are you just here because I posted in your forum topic? lol

Pathetic, but have fun being a TO that doesn't host because of Goat Room glitches, and not thinking outside the box (Which as I recall was actually on the TO Interview on DN, and I expect similar on DB since it derives from the same userbase.

What do you contribute, besides conplaints, and telling people in suggestion topics "It likely won't change", especially when changing stuff on this site is so degenerate that the Staff only use what they have "still" instead of expanding, and the ideas they add (Such as Custom Cards) have been toxic since Day 1. Looking at bad PSCT hurts my eyes, and it's something users refuse to learn. Could start by removing the privledge to users who fail to improve their PSCT, sections already hurting with toxic creators so helping it in a way could be the removal of that ability to make toxic cards, or cards that ruin the fun of the Custom Format. Alas no one cares

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Post #7 by Neo_Fire_Sonic » Wed Sep 11, 2019 4:05 am

are these about people for customs or is this in general
we really just need a list of this for customs

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Post #8 by CrystalMusic » Wed Sep 11, 2019 5:02 am

all the users above this reply

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Post #9 by Alisae » Wed Sep 11, 2019 6:48 am

xDEADCENTREx wrote:Because I am no longer Toxic.
Dal920 wrote:xDEADCENTREx

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Post #10 by NiwatoriFTW » Wed Sep 11, 2019 11:56 am

The implications of having your name mentioned here, replying pointing out someone else and not defending youself in the process...

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Post #11 by Pot_Of_Cupidity » Wed Sep 11, 2019 12:22 pm

Imagine having to call out other people on the forum just to feel intelligent and/or satisfied about yourself.

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Post #12 by Alisae » Wed Sep 11, 2019 12:44 pm

Imagine being banned on DB and making this thread on a new acc because you actually don’t have a life

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Post #13 by Runzy » Wed Sep 11, 2019 1:12 pm

Alisae isn't even toxic :/ I thought this was made by crystalmusic lol the fact that you made this is kinda ironic mate. People none ironically posting names here are kinda sad dude.
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Post #14 by xDEADCENTREx » Wed Sep 11, 2019 2:47 pm

Alisae wrote:
xDEADCENTREx wrote:Because I am no longer Toxic.
Dal920 wrote:xDEADCENTREx


Yeah that's dal920, a user who only ever contributes to discord with spam, and on the forum only posts in spam paradise, or spam esque posting. You want to take their opinion seriously, only because I have bad blood with them? That bad blood honestly is for calling them out on their excessive spam, or off topic posting.

So if you want to trust that person, that's your decision, however it doesn't make it a fact, it's just an opinion, something you are entitled to.

I know you only came onto this thread, because I posted telling you off for how you demanding staff to fix Goat Room, but contributing NOTHING to troubleshoot the issues doesn't help, and is immature to demand action if you fail to help with the solution. You got one fanboy following your contributions, and if I didn't know better (which I do) I would say they are your alternate account.

I know dal920 isn't you however, so that option only leaves one toxic user being supported by a random spammer that's been around since Dueling Network Forums, a regular to spam, and someone who contributed "what to the site"?

Yeah I honestly do not care for your opinions as an individual, I care about the COMMUNITY's OPINION and action against actual Toxic Users of the site, or awareness so they can be tracked with the Administration, so they can Judge it for themselves while being aware of the opinions of the Community.

You coming into this thread to derail it, only proves your toxicity. Nuff said.

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Post #15 by xDEADCENTREx » Wed Sep 11, 2019 2:50 pm

Alisae wrote:Imagine being banned on DB and making this thread on a new acc because you actually don’t have a life


New account? That's laughable. Go ahead and check the Dueling Book Platform for a IP Trace, you will see one IP used (by my ex best friend) wasn't laced to me (Strike Ninja). This is because this is NOT MY ACCOUNT it's someone else's. Something I already made aware in another forum post when I logged into the Forum with their old password for Hearthstone. Ironic they used the same password, making it all too easy to use, since I knew their Hearthstone Password.

Ironically, you do not state this as your opinion, but as a fact. A fact that is false.

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Post #16 by xDEADCENTREx » Wed Sep 11, 2019 2:54 pm

Runzy wrote:Alisae isn't even toxic :/ I thought this was made by crystalmusic lol the fact that you made this is kinda ironic mate. People none ironically posting names here are kinda sad dude.


You are entitled to your opinion as well, as I said before this thread was made in awareness, and if you didn't notice, The Goat Room topic made by alisae is demanding staff to fix the issues, but not willing to help troubleshoot them.

For a user to tell staff "Do your job fix it" and NOT help, that ISN'T Toxic? Well we have a difference on opinion.

Them coming onto my thread to derail it, all because I wouldn't stop posting on their thread (in my opinion) is the REAL reason they are in this thread.

Further if you check that thread, you will see a lot of attitude coming from Alisae, all over stuff that isn't life or death. Multiposting in response to the same quotes, and all because they got upset. When a user does this on DB it's normally (Take a walk), yet when a staff does it.... yeah lol it's just a huge joke.

They want to host goat format, a format that isn't even getting any interest, apparently because of the issues with the Goat Room according to Alisae, and yet they do not try to find an alternative in the downtime, something I would be doing if I was a TO. Furthermore the tournaments are only starting to get active because of ONE TO, and this was after my callout to the Tournament Scene being inactive. Ironic if I have to say...

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Post #17 by xDEADCENTREx » Wed Sep 11, 2019 2:58 pm

Neo_Fire_Sonic wrote:are these about people for customs or is this in general
we really just need a list of this for customs


It's in General, but I know another user who I frequently discuss stuff with, and they are all for ideas to Fix the Toxicity going around the Customs Room.

Alisae replies suggesting alternatives, such as Discord Channels, which I would advocate, as it's the best way to get a determination of the rules and types of cards allowed BEFORE dueling.

parhelia_0000 is the person who seems to have a lot of Custom Experience on "Toxic Users" as they encounter them often.

I will agree we do need a Custom List, so that people know which users they can reject, and add users they find as they go would help the Custom Format and help filter out users who are rather childish with their deck ideas (by that I mean auto win, cannot play yugioh, esque creators) all trying to get a high off auto win mechanics.

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Post #18 by xDEADCENTREx » Wed Sep 11, 2019 3:01 pm

Alisae wrote:Imagine being banned on DB and making this thread on a new acc because you actually don’t have a life


So finding Housing (Secured for this Thursday at 1PM Eastern Time), going to Court (Which I did today at 9AM, and got out at 10AM due to a remand), and searching for a Job, as well as helping my Aunt with both Physical and Emotional Supports as well as doing tasks for them such as going Grocery Shopping (which I did yesterday) is what you consider NOT having a life?

Then mind telling me what I should be doing to "have a life"?

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Post #19 by xDEADCENTREx » Wed Sep 11, 2019 3:02 pm

xDEADCENTREx wrote:CrystalMusic
Alisae
Il Capo
SLIFERTHEMAXIBOSS
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Post #20 by xDEADCENTREx » Wed Sep 11, 2019 3:41 pm

Runzy wrote:Alisae isn't even toxic :/ I thought this was made by crystalmusic lol the fact that you made this is kinda ironic mate. People none ironically posting names here are kinda sad dude.


Ironic perhaps, however I have more contributions to the site than they ever did. The real issues for why I was removed is Toxicity towards you and The Flaming Storm, and the toxicity towards The Flaming Storm, was because they didn't deal with the Toxic User "The Riddler" who not only commited multiple PE Minors in 1 Duel with no upgrade, but also is known to cheat in rated. They show advanced knowledge of the game, however they tried to SS Umastryx when it missing timing.

Something that basic is common knowledge to a user with advanced experience, the play would benefit their board if allowed, and it's as simple as "I will try to cheat, if I am caught I will claim I didn't know, if I am not caught I get board advantage"

Then I decided to take it a step further and Ban Evade in Discord, something that wasn't even properly looked into, until I made a request for Chat Regular, to which Lantern asked if I was "Strike Ninja" indirectly with citing my behaviour, and when they saw I said I am, they banned me from discord. That account wasn't toxic, and showed a change in behaviour, alas improvement to behaviours doesn't get acknowledged once banned, because it takes multiple instances, so I get I am not allowed back, nor do I dispute it.

The real issue I got is people more toxic than me, are allowed to harass people in DM, Whine about people not following duel notes (which also get abused by the mentioned), and furthermore they post to ridicule members on the forum at least once every 2-3 days, if not daily.

All these actions are far more toxic than what I did.

PS: I added my own handle (which I do not own) to the list, as requested. As I said, I am adding this as a referrum to other users, not to bash toxic players, or people who are seen as toxic users, but as an informatory article for reference purposes.

Alisae demanding the staff to fix goat room is not toxic? I think you need to google toxic.

Toxic Resource

There are certain behaviors that do nothing but drag you down, hold you back, and cause you to suffer. Whether exhibited by you personally or by another major figure in your life, these behaviors can rightfully be classed as toxic because of their negative effect on your mental health and well-being.


They have the power to suck the joy and happiness from within you and replace it with stress, anger, sadness, and other unwelcome feelings. Free yourself from these and you will notice an incredible shift in the way you view and interact with the world around you.

The first step of such a mental purge is to identify which toxic behaviors are present in your life. The following list details 30 of the most common and most destructive.


1. Comparing Yourself To Others
Perhaps the most universal of all toxic behaviors is the need to compare yourself to other people. This desire to look at others and weigh their lives against your own is an entirely futile exercise because of the complete subjectivity of existence. Physical appearance, material wealth, and life experiences cannot reveal how a person is feeling or what they are thinking. True contentment only comes when you are thankful for everything you have been blessed with.

2. Participating In Drama
Drama can only exist if there are people willing to participate in it. When you starve drama of your energy and attention, it fades into oblivion. Thus, your reaction to a given situation is of great importance, for it determines how things will ultimately play out. Make a conscious choice not to pour fuel on the fire, but to act with calm and composure, and drama will become a thing of your past.

3. Negative Self Talk
The way you speak to and about yourself has a significant influence on how you feel. If you are forever using self-limiting language and believing the worst will happen, you’ll be unable to enjoy and appreciate the good things that enter your life. Negative thoughts lead to negative actions and sooner or later you’ll find yourself in a downward spiral of unhelpful energy, expectations, and experiences.


4. Seeking The Validation Of Others
As much as life is about the people you spend it with, you should not be reliant on them to make you feel happy. If you are constantly looking for the reassuring approval and validation of a third party, you will never truly find peace. You must, instead, realize that the only opinions that really matter are the ones you have of yourself. Nobody else can give you the self assurance and confidence that you desire.

Related post: Codependency Vs Caring: Differentiating Between The Harmful And The Helpful

5. People Pleasing
Following closely on from the previous point is the matter of bending over backwards just to please other people. When you put the needs and desires of others ahead of your own without a good reason, you act from a place of personal insecurity. This behavior can lead to people taking advantage of you and to you feeling resentful when you don’t receive the thanks and approval you are looking for.

6. Perfectionism
While there is nothing overly wrong with striving to do your best at something, if you pursue the goal of perfection in everything you do, you set yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and disappointment. Perfection in its truest sense is a myth; opinions can be formed and consensuses reached among certain groups of people, but nobody can lay claim to it in any form. We all have limits and the reality is that you will be better at some things than others.

7. Taking Things Personally
Some unkind acts and comments may well be directed at us, but there is also an unhealthy tendency to take things personally even when they are not. When you assume that a person’s anger, annoyance, sadness, or displeasure is your fault, you begin a dangerous thought process. It makes you believe that you are a burden to them, that they do not like or love you, and that you are undeserving of their respect. By taking responsibility for things that have little to do with you, you decrease your own sense of self-worth.

Related post: How To Not Take Other People’s Words And Actions Personally

8. Reliving The Past
The past cannot be undone and it cannot be changed; it becomes a matter of fact as soon as it has happened. Letting your mind drift back to past events, then, has very little in the way of value. Aside from the lessons it can teach you, dwelling on things that have already passed only prolongs the negative emotions you associate with it. Generally speaking past pain is felt far more vividly than past pleasure, so the past is best left in the past.


9. Worrying About The Future
Just as the past cannot be undone, the future cannot be foretold. Here too, the effects of negative emotions are far greater than their positive counterparts. Worry and anxiety can easily take hold of your mind, but you can never quite experience happiness over things that are yet to occur. Having goals, dreams, plans, and aspirations is not necessarily bad, but they should be looked upon as possibilities and not outright certainties; the same should hold true for future risks.

10. Playing The Victim
You may have been dealt some very undesirable experiences during your lifetime, but you should try not to allow a mindset of victimhood to develop. No matter what the past has thrown at you, your present and future are, to some degree, in your control. If you identify yourself as a victim, you will be more prone to act as one, and such behavior can hold you back from fulfilling your potential.

11. Selfishness
As much as you should not be a people pleaser, as was discussed above, it is equally as detrimental to your mental welfare to act in a selfish and egocentric way. Doing so only serves to drive people away, even those who may once have cared deeply for you. Focusing on one’s own interest destroys trust and respect and leads to superficial relationships with other people.


12. A Sense Of Entitlement
When you go through life believing that you are owed something, you will experience an endless sense of deficiency. As lucky as most of us are to have clean water, a roof over our heads, and food on the table, there is no natural law stating a minimum standard of living everyone is entitled to. You may desire to have more money, better living conditions and more lavish experiences, but you should expect to work hard for these.

13. Passing Judgement On Others
You can only ever experience the world from your perspective, and while you are free to observe the actions and choices of other people, you will never be able to fully comprehend their reasons for them. Thus, when you judge others for the way they live their lives, you are doing so despite having mere fragments of the wider picture. You project your own experiences and beliefs onto them even though they are a poor substitute for the real circumstances. Casting such judgements is more a reflection of you than it is of the other person.

14. Arrogance
One of the main reasons we judge others is because we fall prey to our own arrogance. Believing yourself to be superior or of greater importance to others is a trait that most people would describe as undesirable. Arrogant behavior pushes people away, not least because it is often linked to a lack of compassion and the selfishness described above.

15. Being Overly Competitive
One of the main roads leading towards arrogance is an intense competitive streak. While not inherently bad or unhealthy, having a competitive side to you can sometimes cause fractious interactions with other people. Take things too far and you become someone that many find hard to relate to. You are also more likely to fall under the spell of perfectionism and then struggle to function when you encounter failure.

16. The Overuse Of Technology
With the rapid pace of technological progress, the influence it has on our lives is growing almost daily. While many of these innovations are extremely helpful and generally harmless, there are instances where your use – and eventual dependence – on technology becomes a problem. From gaming to social media, the lure of technology can be highly addictive if it is not kept in check.

Related post: 11 Signs Your Relationship Is Being Ruined By Your Partner’s Phone Addiction


17. Stubbornness/Inflexibility
The world is a chaotic and highly unpredictable place which is why having an inflexible mindset can become a problem. When your views and opinions grow rigid even in the face of overwhelming contradictory evidence, you end up living a lie. Being stubborn prevents you from adjusting to a world that is changing all the time; if you aren’t careful, it will change beyond recognition and leave you feeling resentful.

18. Ignoring Self-care
A very obvious behavior which can lead to long term complications and unhappiness is neglecting to take care of one’s health. Whether this is through the physical impact of abusing your body or from the lack of attention paid to the state of your mind, we’re all guilty of not caring for ourselves as we should. If you let this go too far, however, the impact and damage may become irreversible.

19. Not Speaking Out
Not all toxic behaviors involve your actions; sometimes it is when you do not act that you are potentially harming your well-being. One such example is when you do not speak up and speak out when you disagree with someone or something. By not doing so, you allow others to dictate the terms by which you are then forced to live; you let them walk over you with little regard for your opinions or feelings.

20. Holding On To Loss
Life cannot be without loss; it is a big factor whether we like it or not. We lose people, security, and even our own independence at various points during our lives. When we grieve for this loss, it helps us to accept it and then move on, but if we refuse to let go of what has gone, it keeps us trapped in a state of perpetual sadness. Until you can relinquish your hold on that which has passed, you will be locked in place, unable to more forward upon life’s path.

21. Insincerity
You have an important choice to make whenever you interact with the world: you can either be yourself or you can put on an act. You may think that your true self is not what people wish to see and that you will enjoy greater success by hiding it away, but there is no genuine joy and peace in deceiving yourself and others. When you act with sincerity, integrity, and honesty, you will find greater contentment and attract people who love you for who you really are.


22. Cruelty
It can be all too easy to exhibit cruel and spiteful behavior when you are feeling insecure and under pressure. Little slip-ups are quite understandable, but when you start relying on being mean to others in order to give yourself a lift, it can be incredibly detrimental to your life. It is highly unattractive and can leave you isolated as others distance themselves from your malicious ways. It is also far less effective than more positive acts in making yourself feel better.

23. Attention Seeking
Often related to the validation and people pleasing points made earlier in the article, seeking the attention of others is rarely a healthy long term behavior. If you allow the praise and amusement of onlookers to form the basis of your self-worth, you will never be able to enjoy the times when such attention is not forthcoming. Your need to be at the center of things will become insatiable and you’ll end up going to ever greater lengths to get what you desire.

24. Jealousy
When you feel jealous, you believe your enjoyment or possession of something is coming under threat from a third party. You resent someone else from gaining what you already have and this can manifest itself in spiteful attempts to deny them access. This is distinct to envy, where you may not begrudge someone else’s enjoyment, but wish to experience it too (see the very first point on comparing yourself to others).

Related post: How To Stop Being Jealous In A Relationship

25. Resisting New Experiences
Intrinsically linked to your worry about the future is the resistance you may have to trying new and different things. You find yourself in a comfort zone, which, while not always negative, may restrict your enjoyment of life. You may shun the novel in favor of the known even if the former would increase your overall satisfaction.

26. Lying
All types of relationship are, to some degree, built on mutual trust which is why lies are capable of such destruction and heartache. Honesty is not always easy, but it is generally the best option for your long term health and happiness. Even if the truth is going to hurt, it is better this than living a lie or having that lie discovered at a later date. Lying to yourself is as much of an issue as lying to someone else; you will not find lasting peace if you deny who you really are.

Related post: 8 Ways Lying Is Poisonous To Relationships

27. Cheating
With respect to both cheating on another person in the context of a relationship and cheating your way through other parts of life, neither will do you any benefit mentally. Even if it is never discovered, you will always know that you cheated and it will weigh upon your mind for the rest of your life. You may enjoy some short term perks from it, but cheating in any form will haunt you.

28. Manipulation Of Others
Being manipulated is never an enjoyable thing and, when taken to the extremes, it can destroy a person’s sense of self. Seen from the other perspective, it may seem like you can get more of what you want by exploiting others, but you are being deceived by the promise of external virtues. Manipulating others can never provide the inner fulfillment that you desire because your gains are tainted by the grief and misery you inflict.


29. Holding A Grudge
When someone wrongs you, your instinct might be to hold it against them for a prolonged period of time. What you might not appreciate is that as long as you are unable to forgive them for the harm caused, you are destined to carry it with you in your mind and heart. The burden of harm will weigh more heavily upon you, and so the gift of forgiveness is one you give yourself.

30. Blaming Others For Your Woes
Things might not always turn out as you want them to, and there will be times when the whole world seems to come crashing down around you, but laying the blame at someone else’s feet will not make you feel any better. Not only will you end up resenting that person, but by failing to take responsibility, you risk losing the meaning that self-determination can bestow upon your life. If it’s always someone else’s fault, you begin to feel impotent and unable to choose your direction of travel.

As was highlighted at the beginning of the article, these behaviors are best avoided whether they come from you or someone else in your life. Try to recognize those you might be guilty of and then act to avoid behaving in such ways in the future.


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